The subject who is truly loyal to the Chief Magistrate will neither advise nor submit to arbitrary measures. This article was published more than 3 years ago. Some information in it may no longer be current. I've been together with my wife for nine years, married just over three. She was a soccer player, very fit, and exactly what I wanted from a wife so I stuck with her. But she gained 80 pounds about two years into our relationship.
I always saw her working it out and getting back to her old self. Instead, she has regressed further, both physically and personality-wise, whereas I am very driven and active and want to experience all I can in life. I'm at the point where if she doesn't take things seriously soon, I'll want a divorce. Is this wrong of me to want a deeper connection and attraction?
I've given so much time to waiting without result. It's funny: We live in a culture where this is a taboo topic. It's "fat shaming," we should all be happy with our bodies the way they are, and so on. And to be honest, I'd feel a lot more comfortable with this question if the sexes were reversed and it was a wife complaining about a husband. Also, I'd love to drop bromides like: These considerations shouldn't matter, it's the love and spiritual connection that counts, the main thing is communication and whether you're soulmates.
But I just can't. Time and experience and everyone I talk to and everything I've read indicate otherwise. Google "my spouse got fat. You tend to hear more from the women, and the common thread is along the lines of: "I love my husband, he has a great personality, but he's become a tubby hubby and refuses to do anything about it.
Now I'm finding I'm not attracted to him and thinking of leaving him. What do I do? It's been a problem for me, too, I won't lie. My wife loves me, we're soulmates, but I've always wrestled with my weight. And I know my wife has wrestled with it my weight too. Time passes and wrinkles and grey hair happen to everyone, but she has the right to a reasonable facsimile of the hot guy she married.
Or at least someone who's trying. And I do: I go to the gym I live across the street from one, so I really have no excusewatch what I eat. I fight the fight. If I decided just to pull the ripcord and let myself go, I think you'd have to stick a fork in her, because she'd be done.
Cyril Connolly famously said: "Imprisoned in every fat man, a thin one is wildly signalling to be let out. Which leads me to your question.
Two words jump out: "regressed" and "divorced.
Are you sure it's not a medical or psychological issue? If so, she should see a shrink or a doctor prontissimo. If not — well, it's unclear if you're communicating your concerns, or the gravity of your concerns, but if you aren't you should start to do so immediately.
But you have to do it gently, tactfully. Gaining weight can be a vicious cycle: you get fatter, you get depressed about it, gain more weight, etc.
You have to help her, not hurt her. It takes delicacy and diplomacy.Copyright Singapore Press Holdings Ltd. Regn No E. All rights reserved.
He contacted me first, and when I saw his smiling photo staring back at me, I knew it was love. When we eventually laid eyes on each other my heart literally skipped a beat. Matthew was more gorgeous than in his photos, and he told me that I was more beautiful than he expected. After a few weeks of being a couple, Matthew told me that he loved me and could see a future with me, but there was just one thing that bothered me — my weight. At first I was taken aback. I had the perfect figure so what on earth was he talking about?
He then shared that he had a thing for chubby women and he asked me if I would put on weight for him. He added that he loved me as I was but that piling on several extra kilos for him would make him happier. But I truly loved Matthew and wanted to please him. Now I was gorging on high-calorie foods, and large amounts of it, too. I definitely felt it, because my clothes grew increasingly tight and I had to shop for new clothes more often than before.
They always laughed at me in disbelief. If he loved me big, why would I want to go back to my petite size? I get tired more easily and my face always looks bloated. What I do miss more than anything is exercising. I miss my Zumba and yoga classes, and I miss playing netball with my friends on weekends. Also available at:. Generic selectors. Exact matches only. Search in title.
Search in content. Search in excerpt. Search in posts. Search in pages. Image: rf. View More. Newsletter Subscribe Sign up for one of our free newsletters to receive the latest news, commentary and fashion features straight from Her World.She is a trim, super pretty sexy woman, but has always had a thing for feeding me. I have gone from lbs to a big fat and she seems to want to get me even bigger. I dont mind that my fat turns her on, but its getting hard to move and the fatter I get the more she feeds me.
I am blowing up so big I need new clothes every week and I am starting to give in and just let her fatten me up into her personal man pig. While I admit its sexy to see my trim hot sexy wife attacted to a now fat pig like me, I am scared if she leaves me.
Well, that's why you treat her well and keep her happy.
That way you get to be the little piggy that has roast beef. But if you misbehave, well, you know the real meaning of piggy who went to market, right? It's interesting to be able to know the secret thoughts of spouses nowadays. I'm sure deliberate fattening still happened with lovers 20 years ago, but it was at most hushed gossip. I remember an uncle years ago who was a pretty good catch financially and physically, except he lacked self control in flirting with other women. His first wife left him for cheating.
Later on he met a Latina who was sweet but also a little more possessive. She made it clear he was hers now. A year later, he was practically unrecognizable with his double chin and spherical body. She must have pumped him with food day and night to blow up his gut that big. But hey, 20 years later, he's still faithful to her.
My wife has grown fat and I love it
She redirected his lack of self-control to the dinner table and now she's the one in control. Guess she knew what she was doing. How much weight would you say your uncle gained in that year?
What would your estimate be of his starting weight to his highest? It was more the transformation - from player body to tub boat. He went from about lbs of tough-looking muscle to a lb jelly bowl. Fat is a lot less dense than muscle too, so he just looked a whole lot bigger, like an over-inflated balloon.
She completely neutralized his SMV sexual market value to the hoes.We have been dating for almost three years, and things are starting to become more serious. She was always slightly overweight, which I never had a problem with, but recently she has began to gain more weight. I can tell. Plus, all of her immediate family is extremely overweight and I fear that she may soon be obese as well.
What can I do? Do not let your friends run her down. When I try to talk to her about her weight gain, no matter how kind and caring and sweet I am, she gets defensive. You have to see your girlfriend as a whole woman, a partner who will stand by you no matter what, a best friend that you share life with. Her sense of self-worth may take a hit — and this is not good.
If fact, shame will likely cause your girlfriend to gain more weight and take less care of herself. What sports or activities can you and your girlfriend do together? Instead of nagging her about her weight gain, make dates that involve hiking, skating, walking, playing sports or trying new physical activities.
Instead, focus on health and wellness as a couple. Find ways to support the physical activities your girlfriend likes to do. Invite her to try new things with you. This is unusual because most married couples gain weight after the wedding, not lose it!
Tell your girlfriend that you love her just the way she is. Tell her that you want her to have the h appiest and healthiest life possible, and that your concern for her weight gain is coming from a place of love, not judgment. What makes you think your girlfriend is overweight?
Women are supposed to be curvy and round, shapely and soft. What is your relationship based on? This is a personal choice — just like being attracted to someone who has a fair complexion or short legs. No matter how beautiful, slim, or smart your girlfriend is, you and she will go through rough times in your relationship. Think about why you are and are not being attracted to her. All relationships go through ups and downs regardless of how much each partner weighs.
In the comments section below, tell me why you love your girlfriend. What makes her stand out amongst all the other girls in your crowd?
Who is she to you, and where do you want your relationship to go? What are you grateful for, and why do you want her in your life? Are you worried about what your friends and family will think?
My girlfriend is gaining weight on purpose?
In this case, I encourage you to talk to someone professional who can help you approach your girlfriend in a kind, loving way. Do you need help being honest with your girlfriend? What do you think — is your girlfriend gaining weight? Comments welcome below…. Need encouragement?
Get my free weekly "Echoes of Joy"! Your email address will not be published. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Notify me of new posts by email. Congratulations on actually attempting to lose weight.From the start she was a little on the bigger side maybe a little chubby but still at a pretty average weight of lbs.
A few months in put on about 20lbs and then confessed to me what she said was her biggest secret and said she has a fat fetish.
She likes overeating and gaining weight. She said she loves when she outgrows clothes how she jiggles and that she likes the way she looks. She even told me that she had a youtube channel where there's a whole community of girls who gain and guys who find it attractive when they gain.
She keeps track of her progress and even gets a couple thousand views through each video. I love her and so I tried to talk her out of it at first but she said she's happy and she's not stopping.
So I told her I'd try my best to find it attractive. These last several months she's just ballooned. She spends her days eating and making youtube videos of her eating or playing with her belly. She weighs almost lbs now too. I've decided I can live with it because I really do love her. But is this normal? Are their other girls out there who love being fat? And actually want to gain weight? I mean she has to waddle everywhere and she hardly leaves the house except for when we go out to eat.
I think it's very admirable that you are accepting her the way she is. I think a big concern would be what she is eating to gain all this weight. It's not good to gain lots of weight all at once since it can lead to underlying health issues. I think you should just talk to her about this and your concerns.The Pornhub team is always updating and adding more porn videos every day.
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Just something I never told anyone. My wife has been fat for 35 years. Remarkably has been pretty steady at around pounds for years. About a year ago, she hurt her knee--needs surgery to fix it but she doesn't want to do it. So she has been relatively sedentary. The weight has been piling on. Not only doesn't she expend many calories, but because she's bored, she's eating more. She won't weight herself, but I guess her weight at maybe now. Better yet, she seems destined to keep gaining!
I need some help here I've been a closet FA all my life, which I know now is stupid, but I followed my surroundings into saying fat is bad, even though I deep down have always loved bigger women. Fast forward a few years and I married the love of my life, who weighed a pounds, with the body of an athlete. Now I've always told her, whenever it came up, that no matter how much she weighs, I would always lover her, but, and this is the tricky part, whenever I was with others I said I didn't like big girls, only fit girls etc.
Again I do apologize for being a short sighted sheep here. Fast forward another couple of years and she didn't care about fitness anymore and starting indulging into what life had to offer and she gained 60 pounds I love it, she looks amazing people and I hope she gains a little more, but she feels she's too fat and wants to lose weight.
How can I still tell her and make her believe after always saying the opposite, that she doesn't have to lose weight. She should keep enjoying life like she has. I've told her many times she looks more beautiful now than ever before, but coming from me, she doesn't believe it. Appeasement for most women works wonders, especially well into the lb range where its impossible for her to get smaller.
Consider cooking for her, and take her out to places, especially with friends. Act confident when you are with her, because that is the key to making her feel comfortable in her body. Compliment her from time to time, especially when you take her out.TELLING MY GIRLFRIEND SHE’S GAINING WEIGHT PRANK!!! - NOEY&XANDEN
If she asks you if she has gotten too fat, or looks fat, tell her it doesn't matter to you. However, the best option is to tell her you like fatter girls, she'll understand, I assure you, even if you want her to be on the upper weight limit. I've fattened my wife as well. Sometimes I feel bad that I have helped her get so fat, but she flaunts her fat at me, she knows it turns me on and encourages me to buy her whatever food she wants. So it's not about my wife it's taboo being my mum.
We got really close after her divorce she was 48 weighed like lbs 5ft6 so skinny. We got together one drunken night and didn't look back. She started putting on weight as we got comfortable together ,which she tried to lose at first. I eventually got the courage to tell her I liked that she was a bit pudgy near maybe, so she decided to stop exercising for me and just went with the flow be happy and all that.